| Location | Pratt |
| Age | 26 years |
| Cause of Death | Suicide |
| Date of Birth | 23/07/1980 |
| Date of Death | 20/09/2006 |
| Visitors | 1,094 since 28/08/2008 |
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JJ was my son. We miss you every day and wish things could of been different. Somewhere inside I
know you thought this was the way but I never thought I would wake up everyday and you wouldn't be
here anymore. Your children are growing up beautifully. You would be very proud of them. Your
sisters, brother, grandfather, father, uncles and aunts, nephews and neices and cousins and children
will forever have you in their hearts as will I. Rest in Peace Son.
Don't judge me for how I left this world remember the love I gave,
A lot of grief will follow me for the decision that I made,
Changes appear in everyone's life,
Some good, some bad,
The one I chose for myself made everyone so sad,
But in time the memories will heal the hurt of hearts,
And my presence will be felt by all,
Remember me when the sun is bright and laughter fills the air and a moonlit night and a whisper of wind will tell you I am there,
Don't look down on my family or fill their hearts with blame,
For my leaving them without good-byes has left them so much pain,
If I could go back in time I would say a last good-bye,
I would tell them to look to tomorrow
and for me please do not cry
Happy Birthday JJ
A big Happy Birthday to you with love,
We know you are watching today from above.
Today of all days we sure will miss,
Hugging you, holding you, giving a Birthday kiss.
"You are never forgotten" as the saying goes,
We all still hurt as each of us knows.
But we stay strong for our family and friends,
Love never goes away when a life ends.
As the tears fall today from our eyes,
Look down on us from the vast skies.
Help dry them with a gentle sunbeam,
And bless us all with a pleasant dream.
® Michelle L. Thouvenin
Happy Birthday JJ, I love you and miss you.
Your big sis,
Michelle
♫ ♫ Happy Birthday ♫ ♫
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In Loving Memory
We don't need a special day to keep you in mind
the days we don't think of you are very hard to find
Each morning that we awake we know that you are gone
And no one knows the heartache as we try to carry on
Our hearts ache with sadness and secret tears flow
What it meant to lose you, no one will ever know
Our thoughts are always with you, your place no one can fill
In life we loved you dearly, in death we love you still
There will always be heartache and often a silent tear
But always a precious memory of the days that you were here
We hold you close within our hearts and there you will remain
to be with us throughout our lives, until we meet again
Getting Past the Pain
Only when a life has ended
And the sorrow begins to fade.
Can the human heart be mended
And walk into the future unafraid.
Blindly we stumble along
Looking for something to fill the day.
Trying so hard to stay strong
I find myself on my knees to pray.
Why can't I heal my heart myself
Why do I cry when I think of you?
The pain is unbearable in and of itself
I wish there was more that I could do.
I will never forget your life on Earth
Or the impact you made on my life.
I begin to start my spiritual rebirth
To help mend the hurt and end the strife.
I need to move on and get past the hurt
So I can continue to live and grow.
And until I'm buried in the dirt
I harbor a sorrow only I will know.
I wrote this for JJ shortly after he passed away and I thought I should share it.
RIP young John and help your mum cope with the tragedy. Also help her to be strong enough to raise your children, who are the memories you left for her. Peace be on you and I wish her patience and success.
thinking of you love sheila
The Four Candles
Author Unknown
Sep 6 2008
The Four Candles burned slowly. Their Ambiance was so soft you could
hear them speak...
The first candle said, "I Am Peace, but these days, nobody wants to
keep me lit."
Then Peace's flame slowly diminishes and goes out completely.
The second candle says, " I Am Faith, but these days, I am no longer
indispensable. "
Then Faith's flame slowly diminishes and goes out completely.
Sadly the third candle spoke, "I Am Love and I haven't the strength to
stay lit any longer." "People put me aside and don't understand my
importance. They even forget to love those who are nearest to them."
And waiting no longer, Love goes out completely.
Suddenly...
A child enters the room and sees the three candles no longer burning.
The child begins to cry, "Why are you not burning? You are supposed to
stay lit until the end."
Then the Fourth Candle spoke gently to the little boy, "Don't be
afraid, for I Am Hope, and while I still burn, we can re-light the
other candles."
With Shining eyes the child took the Candle of Hope and lit the other
three candles.
Never let the Flame of Hope go out of your life.
With Hope, no matter how bad things look and are...Peace, Faith and
Love can Shine Brightly in our lives.
Mavis (gareth shane peter martin dickinson )mam
I 2 have lost 3 sons who took there lives gareth in 2006 e was 27 peter in 2007 e was 36 and shane in 2008 e was 27 i also lost a little boy when e was 4 in 1997 e was run over i miss them so much lv mavis x.x.x
When you feel you miss me most,
As years go drifting by,
Each memory will prove to you,
That love can never die,
That while I left you far too soon,
I did not go alone,
For the father sent his angels,
To gently take me home,
Take comfort when you think of me,
Keep my love deep within your heart,
And with the warmth of each memory,
We will never be apart.
xxxx
Did you think about how your loved ones will cope with the tragedy young angel John? I am sure you didn't if you had you were pure and innocent enough not to commit suicide. Know that you are gone to paradise help your loved ones to cope with this disaster which I know well since I too lost my son Mohammad last year when he was only 23 with lots of plans for his future life. Peace be on you both till we join in the eternal life.
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